The Sexist Factor

Yes, I know. It has been a long, long, long, long... well, you get the point.

I haven't really wanted to write anything lately. I know this is my bitching blog and I know that the country doesn't need another whiner at this point. But here I am. And I'm not going to tell you about how I'm fat and I'm not going to tell you about how I'm poor. I've written about these things already and I am but one small voice in a crowd on those subjects.

Here's my rant and I'll make it short and sweet. Yesterday I heard something twice in one day and it struck me that what I thought was a figment of my imagination, something that I thought had happened twenty plus years ago, but doesn't happen anymore, happened.

Where: Conference Room
When: 11:00 AM or so
Subject: How to be a better salesman (yes, man)
Audience: Most of the company
Quote 1: "We need to stop ignoring the women when we meet with our clients. It has become apparent that they are the key decision makers in the household and that if they aren't speaking out in the initial meeting they are definitely speaking out at some point. We need to stop ignoring them and start speaking to them"

Where: Hallway
When: 1:30 PM or so
Subject: Convention sign for a booth and potential issues if it breaks
Audience: Me
Quote 2: "... and I don't want to leave those women on Sunday not knowing how to fix it. Well, I mean... you know what I mean. I don't mean those women. I just mean... what if they can't fix it? They're stranded there, right?"

I thought we had evolved past this, but I guess not.

I had a meeting today where I discussed with my associate a game plan for working better as a team in the coming year. He is a man, I am a woman. During this meeting his suggestions were that I print out his calendar and his list of customers for him on a weekly basis. I was asked to remind him if he forgot to update his task list. I asked nothing of him because I am capable of doing my own job and then regretted every second of it because I felt "put in my place".

Back on Track?

Well, the wedding went swimmingly and life slowed down and so did I. I have been lazy and having trouble motivating myself to get my flabby, little booty to the gym. So, my pudge is back in a *beautiful ring around my stomach. I complained of it last night and was told by the hubby that I must restart my diet at once or stop complaining. I'll take the first choice.

Of course my diet has always been my downfall. I love carbs and I love dairy though my body feels differently about this. It, on the other hand, has trouble processing this into anything other than thick masses of bubbly fat. Wanna throw up yet? Yeah, me too and I get to look at it full on naked in the mirror every day.

So, I've been pushing myself during this indulgent holiday season. I bring my bag stocked full of clothes, shoes, heart rate monitor and shower supplies to work every day. If I don't go home and go straight to the gym that's the only way I'll make it. Granted I'm not going to the gym every day. Sometimes I lug that overstuffed, bursting at the seems (literally) bag to work and home without so much as glancing at the gym as I speed past it as fast as I can with the guiltiest look on my face.

Motivation. I need some. In the form of a gym buddy. Now.

*Insert sarcasm here

I'm back!

Sorry my friend(s). I have been very preoccupied with my new life... and my new blog.

Just an update on my little exercising adventures - I am sore. I have yet another new workout routine which require a very fast circuit of weight lifting and non-weight lifting exercises that I am thoroughly enjoying. Yes! I have stuck with the work-outs even after the wedding!!

Say Hello to My Little Friend

An anonymous co-worker left this on another co-worker's desk and it was gifted to me since my loving husband has some sort of an obsession with little tux wearing, arctic beings.

Meet my new friend! He watches over me while I work!

Two For the Day!

I forgot to talk about my book reading!

I'm desperately close to the end of one book and I'm not sure if I'll continue on with the author - not because she is bad, in fact I really enjoy her books. I just have a few books gathering dust while they are waiting for my undivided attention.

So, right now I'm reading The Other Side of the Story by Marian Keyes. I have also read Last Chance Saloon, Angels and Sushi For Beginners - all by Ms. Keyes. So far, I haven't really been disappointed.
Next, I'm going to dive into the third book of the Robert Langdon series. Husband Bear gave me The Lost Symbol by Dan Brown for my birthday. I read a few reviews on GoodReads.com and became a little concerned. Then I remembered that I'm a book garbage can and I'll pretty much read ANYTHING. Even if I'm not so sure I'm into it, I'll finish it and by the end I like it.
For January I will be reading Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert for my book club... that hardly ever meets. We're trying! I have noticed that everyone has seemed to have read it, so I'm anxious to get to it!

Back in the Saddle

Yesterday I gushed about my future plans to cook again, and man, I was NOT kidding!

I may or may not have gone online for a good chunk of the day yesterday to read recipes. I printed some out and put a plan of action into place. No, I haven't exactly created a menu per day yet, but I have been logging a few recipes to try here and there.

So, last night's meal consisted of chicken breast lovingly smeared with olive oil, poultry seasoning (and not just your standard - I'll get to that), sea salt and freshly ground black pepper. I over cooked it a bit - okay, a lot because I wasn't paying attention. I was multi-tasking. Not a good idea. However, the side dishes were delicious and pretty standard. It was a good meal to get me up and running again.

Of course, I will tell you what I made for sides! First being asparagus, which a co-worker told me to turn the oven to 475 degrees, place the asparagus on a baking sheet, slather with olive oil and sprinkle with sea salt. Bake until delicious!

My second side was rosemary potatoes cooked in the skillet. I usually bake them as well, but this tends to take some time and since I was multi-tasking while cooking I did not have time to spare. So, using some wonderfully sharp knives given to us as a gift at Christmas (don't worry, we also received another AMAZING set for our wedding) I sliced those potatoes just thin enough and threw them in with my standard olive oil, sea salt, freshly ground pepper and fresh rosemary (are we beginning to notice a theme in ingredients??).

I almost took a picture, but I ended up not doing it. Darn. I would have loved to show you because we have the Everyday White square plates from Bed Bath & Beyond and the presentation of the meal was BEAUTIFUL! Add a dinner roll and I almost cried at the sight of it!

Tomorrow, I will regale you with the tale of tonight's meal, which called for me getting up a little early to throw into the old crock pot! Yes, I changed the recipe as I said I would yesterday. I'll let you know how it goes.

Also, I have not gone yet, but I was made aware of a store that only carries spices - in bulk. I was given a sample of the poultry spice and I must say that I can taste the difference. I will have a field trip to this store and let you know. My source - okay, my mom - says it's wonderful!

It's OVER!! I'm a married woman!

Dear reader(s),

Well, I'm contemplating starting a new blog without having a hidden identity. This could be a fun adventure that will keep me on the straight and narrow sans whining. But, until then, this is my baby. My little pet project that allows me to vent. I may update my two to three readers and allow the hubby to join in on the fun. Perhaps it will be invite only - the options are endless and I have all the time in the world to explore!! I'll try and keep you posted.

So, what am I going to do now that I've had my big day, opened all of my shiny new kitchen appliances and dishes and have started the long journey down Thank You Lane??? I'm going to cook and read again, that's what!! And I'm very excited! I've had not a wink of time this past year to liven my spirits with a good, new recipe and truly enjoy it without a nagging sensation that I should be working on, oh, guest lists and seating charts, so now is the time!

It's freaking freezing and unseasonably so right now. We even had a winter-wonderland preview yesterday and it got me thinking that now is the time to delve into Comfort Food Land!! First on my list is dusting off the slow-cooker and filling it with a beautiful roast! Mmmmmm. No, I won't be using my new appliances for this baby, but I'm sure going to enjoy coming home to the smell of spicy meat and sweet carrots!

I did a little exploring on Food Networks website and decided on a Paula Dean slow cooker version that sounded delicious. Paula Dean knows comfort food after all. Here's the link if you're curious - I'm too lazy to write the recipe out for you, but I'll be sure to let you know of any modifications. I've already been scheming what to add and subtract.

Next on my list? My cousin - the Domestic Diva Trainee- has been chatting up pumpkin, well, EVERYTHING and all of a sudden I NEED it all!! She attempted some pumpkin cupcakes with great success and I am in dire need of these delicious little delicacies! I'll let you know about those too, however, seeing as I think she is my only reader - well... ;)

So, what else could I do to fill up my time (besides getting a very adorable puppy - please, Please, PLEASE hubby!!! Just one! And I promise I will take ever so wonderful care of her!!!). Well, I am creating my winter reading list and any and all recommendations are welcome. I love pretty much all books with exception of those trashy, romance books. Tasteful and fun, suspense, mystery, non-fiction - I'm ready!

Of course, some day I'm going to finish knitting that darn scarf I started about four years ago. I can wrap it around my neck, but just barely enough to tie it. It's my practice piece and it sports some scars and flaws. Now that my bestie from awkward teenage years has moved back with her wonderful husband and beautiful daughter, she can keep me motivated to finish.

It's not that I didn't love planning the wedding and I'm not saying that I'm not sad it's all over. I'm ready for the future! I'm ready for some relaxation! I'm ready to be a wifey!! Hooray!

So, until next time (and since it's the off-season that may be coming quite soon) send some positive thoughts my way and I'll send some cooking/reading/knitting feedback your way!!

Love and all that good stuff,
Gidge

100th Post & Counting

Happy 100th post me and my one reader!

We're down to the last handful of days before the BIG day and I'm completely stressed out... about work. I'm swamped and it doesn't help that the guy I work with is testing his boundaries. I would like to think that if the tables were turned it would go a little something like this, "Well, we need to get these projects done, but I know that you are down to the last week of preparation before your wedding, so let's buddy up and get this done so you can get out of the office at a decent hour".

Instead, I am handed his part of the work at 3:30 pm and told that this must get done by tonight. It was a solid 3.5 hours of work AND THEN I had to go run some errands and go home to begin my printing and cutting assembly line. And that was only last night. If I go back for the last two weeks, I regularly departed from work around 6-6:30. Everyone else leaves at 4-4:30.

I really don't have much left to do for the wedding. Let's be honest, if something doesn't get done, then something doesn't get done or we'll find a way to work around it. I always imagined that I would be out of my mind crazy with stress because the wedding was coming up. Instead, I'm putting the wedding on the back burner for work. Mind you, the guy I work with can throw a tantrum that would rival a two-year-olds (I know because he has a two-year-old) and has a tendency to never take blame for anything that would fall under the fault category. He's gearing up for my time off of work (a full 1.5 weeks!) at the end of the season (meaning, it shouldn't be that big of a deal) and at first it was all fun and happiness, but now he's moping in the corner with the, "What about me??" attitude.

Sorry dude. I don't giving a flying pig through space about you. This is my once in a lifetime moment and you're being a giant a _ _ (another word for donkey).

Down to the Final Days

Well, we are down to the last 25 days of our wedding planning adventure. I'm so psyched I can hardly stand it - well, mostly for the honeymoon part because I can't wait to get away!

So, you may be wondering if I have put my social life on hold. Nope. I would have to say that we have been busier than usual and so far I don't really feel too stressed.

So far, so good. Now, to tie up a few loose ends and we should be skipping merrily down the aisle in 25 days time! Being prepared and having a stress free day is the best birthday present I could give myself!

Stop salivating all over my lunch!!

Yeah, I know. It tastes as good as it looks!

Baby spinach + chicken cubes + raspberries + blueberries + strawberry white wine vinigrette = DELICIOUS.

And, a cup of red grapefruit chunks.

This is why I struggled with South Beach Diet. No fruit. I just have to have it!!

P.S. I'm down another 3 pounds... YES!